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Ann Ellis's avatar

Thank you, Heidi. I am profoundly touched by this story. Giving others the space to forgive themselves… I needed to hear that message. I love your writing!! (I’m a friend of your sister, Kim… who shared your blog with a group of us).

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Leah Schmalzbauer's avatar

I love this piece so much. Thank you, Heidi!

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Kimberly Mitchell's avatar

Cathartic writing at its very best ❤️

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Emalee Gillis's avatar

Very vivid writing.

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Kimberly Sheridan's avatar

Lovely piece of writing - I feel all the emotions vividly and feel like I’m there with you in all its complexity. Glad you forgave yourself, dear one! Thank you ❤️

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Katy Leach's avatar

This is so beautiful Heidi, thank you.

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Audrey Kaplan's avatar

Thank you for sharing that bittersweet, moving, and beautiful story. I love how you describe the role your family played in steering you from shame to resilience. You're a terrific mom and dog mom.

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Katie Scanlon Cooley's avatar

Just read this out loud to Gavin, both of us in tears, beautiful piece.

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Heidi Lasher's avatar

When will we ever see each other, Katie? I want to catch up. After Thxgiving?

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